Should I be at angr yat my mum and should i help out?
Well this is my story im a australian african boy who at the age 2 my gambling father lost everything and thearing to kill my mum and guess what for 13 years after that after all the tough times my mum last year got ill of cancer one year later feb this year it was all good after alot of chemo and surgies well my mum from 2-13 years of age never even tried to work We lived straight from the goverment and you know thats trash, birthdays from 8 onwards and christmas were gifted with nothing and me just crying over the past few years i have been hit by deppresion waves ( sometimes really depressed other days just really not in the mood) unit is cockroach infested sometiems with no meals and cold nights. Even now my mum won't get a job she stays out home winjes and does nothing! Im nearly 15 and Im going to start working should I help my mum or not? should i be angry at my mom? also this isn't a selflish rant I am always grateful of my life and aware many peopel have worser lifes and love ot have my life but idk if I should i use my money from work to feed myself and donate to charity and save up for later or give some to my mum to pay bills etc?
You should fucking help her, no matter what, without her you wouldn't be alive right now. Use your money to help her and yourself, hell that might even inspire her to get a job.
This guy has just given you amazing advice. You are really strong to have made it this far. Get a good job and work your ass of for your mum. She has been through more than you imagine what she feels like. Hold her and hug her. Tell her you will take care of everything
I'm all for charity but why the fuck would you donate to charity in your situation. Get to work, feed yourself, and do help your mom, who went through hell for you and even if you think she doesn't care she does. I kind of doubt you are actually considering donating to charity, I know I wouldn't in your situation. Just be smart with your money.
If there's one thing I know as much as the next guy, these streets are cold my friend. Do what you have to do to survive even if what you're doing isn't the best.
But on to the topic of your mom, I would definitely help her out. You're probably the last thing on this world your mom has. It doesn't matter what you do in life fam but remember that family always comes first.