ever had the one girlfriend where you put so much effort into/gave it you're hardest
I'm obviously going threw a break up, it's driving me insane. What should I do
This relationship was over 1 year one of my longest but reason that I don't want to find anyone new
Is because look at our generation there's so much hoes now, there's only a small portion of those girls who are really down for you
but what should I do honestly, im going crazy every night.
Please no negative comments.
Just kidding, just remember that every time you break up with someone, you always feel like shit and think that there will never been anyone like that person. True, there will never been anyone exactly like that person. There will be someone better. You may not want to find someone new, but you will find someone new. Every relationship makes you a better person. Just remember to learn from your past and apply it to the future so you make less mistakes. I'm just rambling but you get the point.
Talk to her and don't leave her alone. Do whatever you can to talk to her, even if she blocks or ignores you. Just tell her how you care about her and you're always here for her. Put your faith in her and spend as much time as it takes for her to come around to loving you again.
There is no other option unless you're a pleb.
Edit: Never give up on anything you love.
Edit2: Don't listen to anyone telling you to forsake your love. Stalk her if you have to, just don't leave her alone or you'll never be truly happy again. Your feelings wont ever go away, you're always going to think about her and compare her to things, even if you get filled with positive love again, it will not change who you originally loved. You can't rewrite feelings, you can only stack more on top of them. Doesn't mean they vanish.
Edit3: If it takes a year to get her back then do that. Don't settle for any other whores who may treat you even better than she did or does. If you both at any point really loved each other then it will happen. Even if she hates you don't stop bothering her, and don't say anything to ever hurt her or that possibly could. Don't let her pity you or feel obligated to you. You want her to really feel like you're her world, always there for her in every possible way. That's true love works.
Last edited by Dab1996426; 07-17-2016 at 02:45 PM.
Unfortunately there's no way you can vanish what you're feeling right now. Let time heal your wounds. I always end up broken hearted but remember it will all pass and one day you will find true happiness in someone else. Why? Well because everything happens for a reason, what you're feeling right now can be easily translated as this: you're feeling bad because you were in a bad relationship and had high expectations. If she was the right one you wouldn't be broken-hearted. Love is not how movies picture it, and happiness is not where you seek it is where you find it. Try to get your mind off it, start a job, work out, do something else to fill your day.