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    Is it ok to leave your girlfriend/wife is she gains weight?

    So lets say your gf or wife has sexy and fit when you got together with her (you are also fit) but as the years go by she lets go of the fitness routine while you continue. You try to encourage a fit diet but she doesn't want to do it. Is it acceptable to leave her because of that? I think it is because you can't go and change you are just because you are comfortable in the relationship.

    I mean the person who didn't change might not be fine with your weight gain. I mean I know people always say that they will accept their loved ones no matter what but if you were fit when i got with you and i was fit and I am doing everything i can to stay fit and you are not willing to put in the effort to do them same then i am leaving.
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    Quote Originally Posted by cuckold cancer 8=D View Post
    So lets say your gf or wife has sexy and fit when you got together with her (you are also fit) but as the years go by she lets go of the fitness routine while you continue. You try to encourage a fit diet but she doesn't want to do it. Is it acceptable to leave her because of that? I think it is because you can't go and change you are just because you are comfortable in the relationship.

    I mean the person who didn't change might not be fine with your weight gain. I mean I know people always say that they will accept their loved ones no matter what but if you were fit when i got with you and i was fit and I am doing everything i can to stay fit and you are not willing to put in the effort to do them same then i am leaving.
    who the chubster?

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    Quote Originally Posted by R3Dx666† View Post
    who the chubster?
    lol no bruh i am a virgin
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    Quote Originally Posted by cuckold cancer 8=D View Post
    So lets say your gf or wife has sexy and fit when you got together with her (you are also fit) but as the years go by she lets go of the fitness routine while you continue. You try to encourage a fit diet but she doesn't want to do it. Is it acceptable to leave her because of that? I think it is because you can't go and change you are just because you are comfortable in the relationship.

    I mean the person who didn't change might not be fine with your weight gain. I mean I know people always say that they will accept their loved ones no matter what but if you were fit when i got with you and i was fit and I am doing everything i can to stay fit and you are not willing to put in the effort to do them same then i am leaving.
    Why isn't it okay? if she's getting fat and you're no longer attracted to her, sure why not.

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    :O just remember , don't do that shit if she got fat because of having your children one day. From personal experience, the children will honestly really hate you. And began to not trust relationship in the future as it's just based on look. At the end of the day, looks are just the outer appearance and when you get old or hit menopause, looks are just looks as humans all die one day filled with wrinkles and etcs

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    Quote Originally Posted by Fartniture™ View Post
    Why isn't it okay? if she's getting fat and you're no longer attracted to her, sure why not.
    I agree with you. I just want the opinion of fat people and what they think
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    Quote Originally Posted by cuckold cancer 8=D View Post

    I agree with you. I just want the opinion of fat people and what they think
    They will say that you're only looking at the outside "the inside matters not the outside"

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    Who cares your never gonna have a gf cancer carey

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    I personally think it's wrong to leave her. You can't just leave the love of your life just because of her weight?
    If you are having a problem with her weight, talk about it. There is always a way.

    Just my opinion.

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    If it's GF then sure do it, if it's wife then I definitely think you should try harder to motivate her because doing a divorce for that is kinda sketch. Regardless remind her of how it feels good to not be overweight and try to do some psychology on her by saying you want what's best for her.


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    It is OK indeed. I mean it isn't a nice thing to do, but hell, if you're not confortable with the relation anymore, doesn't matter the reason, it's within your rights to end it.

    And if you're feeling so bad about it, that means you mostly liked her for that, and not for who she was (well, that's the obvious deduction, I could be wrong), so that relation is doomed anyways.

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    How would you feel if your wife left you because you're a fattie?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Snake View Post
    How would you feel if your wife left you because you're a fattie?
    Bad, but that doesn't mean it's not okay. I mean if she's not confortable with that, why the hell would she stay with you? (might be a little different if you have kids, but still that wouldn't be that bad)

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    If its been a short relationship yes, if it's been a long relationship or even a marriage, then no.

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