You realize that you shouldn't even be talking about sex with a 14 year old on the internet. It can be construed as flaunting the rape of a minor in some places. Doesn't matter if you're her age.
Yeah... a lot of states consider it rape regardless if it was consensual, because they believe that a minor can't legally give their consent to have sex. It'd be sucky to end up on on a pink list for the rest of you life over a little nookie you couldn't stfu about.