So here it ends, the epic trilogy of my girl problem threads.
I managed to fuck up the relationship.. well, was sort of mutual. I hinted at the fact I didn't want us to be friends with benefits but never really actually tried to sit down and talk about it face to face. I've been sort of busy with work and everything and just didn't have the time, she started ignoring me a few days back and would barely talk to me. Then all of a sudden out of the blue she kept calling me 'her friend' and would be like 'oh i cant say that because we're friends'. She explained that us having sex and doing all the stuff we did WAS to go out with me, but she suddenly realized that she didn't want that and now only cares about me as a friend. I asked her how she felt about us getting together and she said 'I used to feel like I wanted to, but now I don't feel the same way, I you do then you can either deal with it or move on'. Think I may have let it gone on too long.
So yup, got screwed over (Who was the person that said I would? lol) and looks like theres going to be no chance of anything really happening unless she has some serious ass feelings about me.
Anyways, thanks for your advice MPGH, Happy New Year!