You are being flamed because you are annoying. Let's say I just downloaded this new game, and hadn't even looked at the instructions, and I don't know how to play it.
Then I hop onto the support forums and make 50 threads, each asking relatively the same thig.
1. How do I move
2. How do I shoot
3. How do I chat
4. why is the game so big
5. is there a way to...
6. It looks like other people got this error. Just in case I get it, what do I do when...
It just becomes ridiculously annoying.
Here - C++ Language Tutorial
Start at the start, finish at pointers. Then go have some fun with programming, and stop reading he guide - you'll learn faster experimenting than reading.
You must learn to stand before you walk; you must learn to walk before you run; you must learn to live before you die.