Just because we hack\program doesn't mean we're destine to be virgins. There are some pretty hot programmers out there :O
For your question, you can do one of the two :
A) Learn how a computer actually works via reading books, and read some books on assembly(you can learn a lot off them, even if you don't plan to learn asm) become really interested and make programming and hacking your new hobbie, past-time and %75 of the other things in your life.
B) You can do what everyone else has done and start pasting in addresses and using functions that call other functions that eventually call APIs in Visual Basic. Which is about as low as you can go in hacking. Eventually you will get board of it and quit, and never hack again never knowing the full experience of hacking or programming itself.