If you searched before, you'd have seen this was already answered here.
Here's the part you're reading:
"I got a message : "Files different from server"" : There is two problems that make this message, the first is that you got the "wrong update"
By wrong update I mean that the normal "220.127.116.11" and the "18.104.22.168-DLC maps" aren't compatible. I advise you to make a copy of your MW3 folder and put the DLC maps in one of them.
Even if you tried DLC / No-DLC game and you have this message on a server, well, I don't know why does it display it, I also have error message on some servers.
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