If I wanted to be an ass I could compare your situation to that of the troubles of a central african child whose father was hacked with a machete and mother raped then cut off her breasts and shot her in the head, Then the kid had to be dragged into being a soldier but gets beaten every day to be tuff. But that comparison isn't fair lol stupid africans. Your just dealing with simple life issues thats common in todays world, and you can make it through them. Deathcore...not my thing, and christian band?...like i said, not gonna be an ass. But its good to have a girl with ya, keeps ya hopeful, but don't let your relationship with her consume your connections with family, family is important. Your mother is probably just have issues herself with love and such, and of course shes going to spoil your sister, easier to connect with and she probably sees your dad in you. As for a job, trust me, theres always a job somewhere, just gotta be able to do dirt work, it will give you better character lol I did it ever since I was 13 but now my main job is for radio, but I also do music production, dj work, and I have a rock band myself thats more just rock focus, good music lol Just start saving money, go to school, try and be the bigger person and not raise conflict, you will be able to get away from it soon enough.
But the asshole side of on the other hand would just say, fuckhead stop bitching theres plenty people going through worse things like me. Stop being a whiny bitch, loosin up your tight jeans and grow some balls and loose the faggot haircut and piercings. Job? bitch I've done construction, mechanic work, and moved shit. Christian Deathcore? stop screamin like a bitch and listen to some good music where you don't sound like a douchebag. Man up, get a job, don't get sprung, and live it up! Drugs and Alcohol! Drugs and Alcohol!....anyway, just had to get that out also