Gear isn't important in AQWorlds. Enhancements are important.
Anyway, if you're looking for higher DPS, just get a better class! Mage, healer and warrior aren't really going to get you anywhere...
Start up the Doomwood Rep bot and get Necromancer, then you will see improvements
When it comes to getting enhancements, it just depends on your class. But generally:
LUCKY LUCKY LUCKY on absolutely everything, which can be bought in /join yulgar