Brother that is the way it is supposed to be.
If you believe in a creator then you should keep this in mind:
Why did God make women so beautiful?
Look at their hair, their facial features,
their bodies, I mean damn man females are 100 times more amazing to look at then men.
They were made to be more attractive for a reason.
This is what sets us appart from animals.
In the animal kingdom the male is always much more pleasant to look at,
from brighter more vibrant color, to distinguishing features like a mane.
Look how far humanity has come,
we can be a master of trade yet not self control? Doesn't that seem a bit degrading?