AznReincarny
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MY NIGGA !!! I miss you!

Herro fgt.

I don't get on the computer in a few hours.

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From the wise words of me lady part 2.

"Oh also, she needs to learn to move on and get on with her life. The past is the past and she can't keep dwelling on that. If she is, and judging from previous messages, she REALLY doesn't know how to live her life. In fact, I don't even think she knows herself well. Bcuz she doesn't know herself, she doesn't truly know what she actually WANTS."

"What makes him love her so much? Why does he feel that she is worthy of all his love and affection? What is it about her that makes him so sure she's the one."

From the wise words of me lady.

"Can I be honest? She's second guessing herself and all her relationships.
And. Not to be mean, and I'm saying this only from what I know, she sounds ridiculous. I don't even understand her. She's basically contradicting herself. She shows and implies that she wants someone to care for her and love her. But when you try telling her that and offering your love to her, she denies it. Almost as if she's saying YOUR love and care isn't good enough for her. Sorry to break it to you, but "not wanting to hurt your relationship" is bullshit. If that is how she feels, then seriously as a girl giving you this advice, she's not worth your time and your energy and your love. It seems like you are capable of giving so much. And she's not deserving of that."

yeah i know, sup vice you still playing cf? havent seen you on lately also what made you stop?

I am your cousin

Yoyoyo whaddup dawg

Go through my posts and find one where I applied for a position ^_^ That I will never get. Applied NEWS FO 3 times and never got it. Ugh. I'm older than ya

Definitely.

Definitely. You can know what they're thinking and all

Yeah. I'll help you with my own advice, but I rather get it from a lady's point of view.

lol gimme a sec. gf's busy. but lol josh's message below

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V Naughty naughty joshy boy.

I had sex when I was 9 lol

lol to much to read spamer didn't you just get post banned not too long ago?

Yo .

As in, what she wants isn't actually possible. She's making it up. It's a fantasy that she's making up in her head. And it's not possible BECAUSE of the fact that she's pushing everyone away. And by pushing ppl away, she not allowing them to get to know her. Getting to know someone is the first step to caring and loving.

She's pushing people away. And no one randomly loves or cares for someone deeply right off the bat. People get to know each other first. And because she's not letting anyone get to know her, she's in a way not letting anyone love her

I gotta go now. Talk later.

To a girl, just because you talk to someone doesn't mean you feel loved by that person. People talk, but that doesn't mean people care. Maybe she's not feeling a sense of belonging with those she talks to. And she's still searching for that feeling of acceptance. Also, I think what she wants is all in her head. She's realizing this is reality. And so she's not ALLOWING people to be able to love her and care for her in ways she wants to be cared for and loved. This is all her. And her in her own mind and world.

so she likes the attention because she often feels unloved and unnoticed

How old are you?

Same age as me. And yah, that's rough. But ya know, zzz. She's older than you too lol. I forgot who she was anyways.

Also, if she doesn't tell you "what he's doing wrong" then don't worry about it. You should do the best you can to allow her to know you care. But if she's not giving in, that's her problem. It's entirely out of your control, and don't beat yourself up over these things.

When things are out of your control, just try your best and give it your all. The outcomes are what you bridge yourself towards but they are never guaranteed. What's mean to happen is meant to happen.

My girl also feels that she's probably doing this on purpose. Like she's doing this on purpose, pushing people away and not wanting to get close to them. Mah girl understands she's worried and she'll get attached and then they'll hurt her, but if she doesn't ever let her guard down, then she's not living life to the fullest. Mistakes are made and people get hurt, but getting hurt and making mistakes are life's way of telling you, you are trying.

You should continue to listen to her, give few options to begin with... just listen to her and make her want to shake you off. Over time, she'll come to see that you've been there for her all along and gain that trust you want her to have for you. You should have patience tho. Nothing like this comes easy.