Don't look that young to me man. I'm 17 and get told I look 21+ though so I guess I'm in the opposite to you.
But honestly, if they treat you like a kid then just fuck them off. You look chill to hang with.
Hey guys, I missed you all !
Having a free time this week, and might spend it on mpgh I guess..
So this thread about a problem that I have been living with for a long time ... and it's my looks. I look very young / childish I guess ? and I'm treated that way and I honestly hate being treated so and feel uncomfortable.
Well I had this problem with my voice also , except I think now it fits my age , before I also sounded like a young boy.
My family treats me like I'm a kid, well I don't know but I'm the only male between 2 sisters, and I'm the youngest one also. But still ! I'm 19 yet treated like a 15 years old kid.
Even with my friends I'm the baby that everyone cares about and that baby must not do some certain stuff and must not enjoy because I'm the youngest one apparently...
Never talked to anyone about this actually except mpgh , because talking about this with anyone in my real life is pointless, Ya because it's Arab culture I guess , stuff like this isn't taken seriously .
Here's how I look like
I'm the one with the sunglasses
And yeah I don't have a beard :P
Help ?
Note : Any non related / spam / Allahu ackbar shit stuff will be reported as spam. Just be serious ?
Last edited by Janitor; 04-27-2015 at 03:32 AM. Reason: Allahu ackbar
Don't look that young to me man. I'm 17 and get told I look 21+ though so I guess I'm in the opposite to you.
But honestly, if they treat you like a kid then just fuck them off. You look chill to hang with.
Janitor (04-27-2015)
Well if that's you on the profile , you look like 3 years older than me , and that's how my friends same age as me looks like.
My friends are really nice except this part and I really love them :/
Also it's not just my friends and family...
Like in the college .. I always get told what are you doing out of school kid ? makes me laugh sometimes but it gets annoying ..
and thanks <3
Yeah that's me, I look older than most of my friends (in the same age group). And yeah, fair enough, good friends are pretty hard to find
these days. My older brother was the youngest amongst his friends (he was 18 and they were all 21-22+) and he was also treated the same but they all loved him since he was the responsible one out of the group keeping them all out of trouble so maybe it could benefit you in the long run with responsibility and stuff
With family though, I don't really know what you could do since that's tough
Janitor (04-27-2015)
Well I'm 21 years old and sometimes when I go to clubs with friends they ask for ID. cus I look young but hey it's better to look young than old.
Janitor (04-27-2015)
That's nice actually .
I don't know how it feels that you are treated as your age or older. But I'm sure it's a nice to feel responsible and everyone counts on you. Especially your family.
Thanks for your input , I appreciate it.
You might not find it cool when everyone treats you like a kid , literally everyone :/
HalfBajan (04-27-2015)
No worries man.
Except from people going "holy shit I thought you were older than me", I don't really get treated any different. I'm just open to a lot more opportunities like buying alcohol or fitting in with the 'elders'. I don't really drink or socialise with huge groups of people any more though because the people my age in this country make me cringe.
You're smexy @Ameer. By the way, just ignore those comments as they're true friends they're just doing it for fun. They may eventually stop doing it if you don't show them that you get kind of annoyed with it.
I'm 16 and half and i definitely look older than you, also my size is bigger than you because i hit the GYM everyday since two years :>
But you look like: حبيب الماما والبابا المدلل
/serious.
MLGm8 (04-27-2015)
Well im the opposite of you.. EXACTLY
I'm 15.. Looks like 19 or 20 And when im with my friends they treats me like i'm the old guy the one who solve their problems etc...
But tbh you dont look that young to me, I mean if i saw you i wouldn't think u are 15 or even 17
about the arab thing... I can افهمك I have the same شعور But بالعكس
You know, I look younger than you, but you are only older than me by a year.
You look 19 to me
Youtro (04-27-2015)
Exactly. I think that if you (ameer) would expect to be treated appropriately to your age as something obvious, and basically stop worrying about it, the people who treat you as if you were younger will feel uncomfortable doing so and you'll eventually just ignore anyone who tells you that you look young, cuz you fucking don't :| You look like a normal 19/18 y/o to me.
xCyberxx (04-29-2015)