Originally Posted by
FiteMeIRL
What I consider flirting is definitely understood differently by the next person, in this case now my ex.
Listen mate, replying with anger and insults on the internet is pretty much useless, so there's no need for it. Calm down.
Let me explain this issue more thorough. I'm currently recovering from a dental surgery I had almost a week ago. I was under operation for ~2 hours, as the surgery was serious. Not that it matters, but it will help you understand my current situation.
As a result of this, I cant drive, barely go out, restrain from lifting weights or any activity for that matter, for a minimum of two weeks, limit talking verbally, A lot of pain & on a lot of medication. So basically I have to rest & recover for at least two weeks before I can get back to my usual routine.
And during this period, my girl decides to come to my house and throw all these accusations about me. While crying and very upset. Knowing the situation i'm in, I can't put up with any more drama, as i'm in serious pain and I have open sockets with blood ready to gush out. So I try to get her to calm down, but she's not listening, and just basically talking shit in my ear. I get really angry and I tell her to stfu and I slap her in the face, then I tell her to "get out of my house, cant you see the pain & struggle i'm in". And believe me mate, you don't want to piss me off when i'm angry or in this condition.
A few days down the line I start to feel bad about what I did, so I attempt to call her and of course she wont answer. I do have feelings for her like mentioned in the OP, hence why I came on here and posted this thread. As I want others opinions on the matter and possibly provide some solutions to saving our relationship and this whole issue for that matter.
I'm not even eating properly, fucking eating cold yogurt or cold soup. Put yourself in my shoes bro and understand what i'm going through. I need to eat, I have a lot of muscle and i'm very lean, I need to maintain my current physique and eat healthily. This is a result why i'm suffering more.
As for the flirting, girls always flirt with me, that's the reality. If a girl sends me a message, i'll reply, as simple as that. My girl considers this flirting, which to me is clearly not. I'm not saying all the girls want me, but a lot of girls talk to me, what does she want me to do, not talk to anyone but her? As a result of this, she's just jealous and wanted to get upset with me & pin this whole lie on me.