"Holding anger is a poison. It eats you from inside. We think that hating is a weapon that attacks the person who harmed us. But hatred is a curved blade. And the harms we do, we do to ourselves."-Mitch Albom
Rust and Ark Survival is kind of like the same.. I honestly think they kind of boring because it is HARD to do stuff. I mean like it took me literally 24 hours to level up just to make a small wooden house.. And you keep starving every single minute, what all I do is raid people and leave server. Basically all survival games are about spending most of your time getting resources and build up then get raided and never play again. Go with Rainbow Six Siege, it seems like a decent game based on youtube gameplay videos, although i've never played it.