She's not working.. She will get tons of food stamps etc. If we get married, all that shit will be gone because i make to much money. Even if she did get a job she will get more from food stamps, WIC, and so on and so forth. So the way the system in USA is, it's better financially not to get marrried.
Your kids will grow up with a moms boyfriend and not a father
1) I will always be their father no matter what.
2) A couple of months after the pregnancy, she will return to work. Then we can discuss marriage. As for right now, the babies are more important than any thing. Making Sure I have enough money to support my family is not being selfish. If I was selfish, I never would would have made this thread. We discussed this, together. We both agree that it is better this way, so that way my money can go to diapers, toys, car notes, rent, and bills, and the government can buy my food. I have have been paying into the system for years, It's my turn to cash in.