Honestly, do what you desire. I think what you need is to learn how to not listen to those around you, but listen to yourself instead and determine what is right and what is wrong.
I think you're over thinking about the 'MORP' dance thing. It was just a dance. She needed a mate. End of story. If you really like her and you really want to go out with her, talk to her more. Treat her right. Get close to her. Don't make any wrong turns. When you think the time is right, ask her out.
Also, you need to step it up. You can't be shy. You can't have your friends to tell you what to do. You need to start and doing things yourself and do what you think is right. Your friends aren't going to be there all the time to tell you what to do, they aren't gonna hold your hand and tell you what to do all the time.
It's up to you whether you want to get a chance at her, and it's up to you whether you want to let her go.
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Holy fucking shit man, that's some long ass story. Will read after a game I'm playing and I will respond.
EDIT; Aight, I read the whole think. I wouldn't be surprised if only me and perhaps other 2-3 members would read this. Seriosuly dude, it's very long. Anyways, I gotta congratulate you because you seem shy as fuck and at least you accepted to go with the gal to the MORP. Now, WHAT THE FUCK IS A MORP? I don't know. I'm not American so I'm not familiarized with your fatass weird stupid names.
The thing is, a girl thinking you have a sexy voice can be really misleading. My avatar is me with my ex-girlfriend and it all began when she said to her friend, after hearing me on the phone, that I had a sexy voice. Nonetheless, had I been one ugly mother fucker the voice would've been trivial.
The age different is nothing. In my school one my ex-gf's dated a senior when we were in our first year of high school. Nobody even gave them a dirty look. Usually it's better for the man to be older. That way he feels responsible and subconsciously gets the pants in the relationship.
The thing with girls is that you have to make it about them. It's sad, but you have to pretend that you give a fuck about things from what did she do last night to what's her favorite dress color. It's a pain in the ass, but you gotta see the reward. Also, I read a lot of 'our group said' and 'our group told me'. Man up, mate. Don't follow what your group says. If your group says you should cut your testicles and ship them to India, would you do it? Only do things that make you comfortable. Or, well you might have to do things that make you nervous/uncomfortable, but do them because you think they're worth it.
Another thing I gotta mention. The Facebook shit. That thing will only get you to one place. The Friendzone. Talk to her face to face, amigo. Grow some balls and take that leap. If you really like her, you gotta risk it to get the biscuit. It's not like magically you guys are going to be together. You gotta MAN UP. If I have learned something in my youth is that there are 3 places were you either man-up or pussy-out; HoN, war, and love. It's that simple. Tell her how you feel when the time's right. You never know when the next guy might catch her eye and take her vag. Feel me?
PS: Don't seem desperate to her. Girls can sense desperate boys. It's like dogs and fear.
^^^ This is probably the best advice your gonna get As most of the people on this site have never talked to a girl. ^^^