Coming from someone who knows the feeling of a family member committing suicide... Its no easy way. My cousin recently committed suicide and I have never seen something just wipe out my whole family faster then this. It wasn't some feel bad thing my whole family went into therapy I didn't need to because I never knew him well but not even knowing him I still was so depressed knowing a family member had to go this route. Suicide is NOT the way out you should never put the people through the pain that they will suffer once you go that route. If you are going to talk to her you need to tell her how much sorrow this will cause you will never experience pain untill it happens to your family.