Here are the ways that I myself use: Shovel takes exactly 1 second to hit if you right click. Pick the right timing. As for axe, left click to the head is the best. And the best way to kill with shovel or axe is right click while jumping. It is really hard to kill someone who does that.
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Make sure to use an OMM for all your trades for a safer trade