As someone not biased towards any of this, I know the pain when someone says you're scamming them when it's the other way around. However that video does make it seem like you are the one doing the scamming. You really should at least point out why you removed the messages, since you didn't seem to respond to that when you quoted his post asking. And for the guy accusing with videos, you'll get nowhere with him scamming or not when everyone views you as a 12 year old that can't spell.
Not saying who the scammer is and isn't, but if you are telling the truth Ray, hope you stay seeing I had a small share of these type of people as well. People like that definitely isn't worth leaving over.