Is it ok to leave your girlfriend/wife is she gains weight?

[Confluency]

Yes, if she can't physically keep herself healthy she isn't worth becoming a wife.

[Mantic0re]

if she doesn't want to improve herself while you attending gym then there is no future

[Glitched]

yes , leave it.

[AzzyG]

Is it okay to lie about having cancer.

[Lupin]

Girlfriend yes, Wife no. When you marry someone, you love them unconditionally as long as they stay faithful

[Ace]

Exercise, yes. Get gains, fucking no.

[crex]

Just tell her she's fat. But be nice about it. Tell her you're concerned for her health because you care for her.

[Omegalos]

If she gets too fucking fat then you got no other choice

[Raple]

I'd think of it this way.

Let's say you start dating a girl, and you are extremely into a certain hobby. After a while, she gains the confidence to tell you she hates your hobby and you should quit it, and she refuses to change her mind or listen to your opinion.

Would it be acceptable to leave her in that case? Yes, I believe so. This is the same situation. Your "hobby" in this sense is staying fit, and the girl in your scenario is obviously against keeping fit and doesn't wish to continue with what you think is right.

Therefore, fuck her.

[Danny]

Yes because they changed as a person and you might not support their new personality

[Eternity]

Girlfriend yes, Wife no. When you marry someone, you love them unconditionally as long as they stay faithful

That's the thing tho -_-

Loveless marriage is not love anymore.

[Vader]

Totally not if it's real love ... imagine you gain some weight

[Scammer's Sheep]

Yes, and no. Pick your side.

[Mantic0re]

I had a story. My gf started gaining weight. I could not tell her that she is fat. So I made her a present on 14th Feb, gym membership. I attended gym with her (I had problems with weight too). I worked hard, took clenbuterol +diet and she... she had no results. Then I realised that we had no future and we broke up.

[Phildepill]

I would talk with her, if you're worth something to her, she wants to keep you, so she will start trying to loose some weight.
If she doesn't want to be attractive to you anymore, then she might not be worth it, because she doesn't care.