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    Unhappy Feeling different from friends in my age group.

    I'm not saying I'm unique or some shit. I'm saying it feels I have different values with my friends in the same age(18).

    You can say I'm a boring person, I take relationships seriously and I don't really enjoy the "fun" that my friends like. My friends would enjoy and literally visit every single club, enjoy being wasted. Get kissed and hugged by random dudes in clubs. Treat relationships casually. To be honest I would rather stay alone watch a movie than to do something like that.

    I'm not judging my friends and saying their entertainment/values are wrong. I'm saying this because I felt left out and strange that I don't find any of these fun. It makes me feel something is wrong with me for looking for a long term relationship.

    It just made me feel like I'm like a grown ass elderly looking for "eternal happiness and love".

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    You're just an autistic edgelord, nothing special. Get over it.

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    Nothing unique, a lot of people enjoy loneliness, or at least, being in a quiet environment.

    I don't like going to the clubs either. We all have our own interests. I prefer to learn important stuff online like programming, foreign languages... or just to go out for a walk in a forest than hanging out with "friends".

    If you feel happier alone, then, stay alone and be happy.
    People won't be there for you since we're all individualists: you need to be happy without depending on others.
    Keep that in mind and take care of yourself first.

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    what's the problem exactly? you not having good friends, or you not finding a relationship?
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    Quote Originally Posted by YungHa View Post
    My friends would enjoy and literally visit every single club, enjoy being wasted.
    Not everyone is the same, you should learn that early on. Some people love to go clubbing, get wasted whilst spending their paycheque and do random shit. Some people prefer a night in with a movie. Essentially it's all up to your likes and dislikes. If you don't enjoy going out with that set of friends, then find something you do enjoy doing with them and stick to that, then see if any other friends enjoy your other likes if it's a movie night, going to a show etc.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Joe View Post
    Not everyone is the same, you should learn that early on. Some people love to go clubbing, get wasted whilst spending their paycheque and do random shit. Some people prefer a night in with a movie. Essentially it's all up to your likes and dislikes. If you don't enjoy going out with that set of friends, then find something you do enjoy doing with them and stick to that, then see if any other friends enjoy your other likes if it's a movie night, going to a show etc.
    what ?? someone actually posting a well thought out answer
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    Quote Originally Posted by YungHa View Post
    I'm not saying I'm unique or some shit. I'm saying it feels I have different values with my friends in the same age(18).

    You can say I'm a boring person, I take relationships seriously and I don't really enjoy the "fun" that my friends like. My friends would enjoy and literally visit every single club, enjoy being wasted. Get kissed and hugged by random dudes in clubs. Treat relationships casually. To be honest I would rather stay alone watch a movie than to do something like that.

    I'm not judging my friends and saying their entertainment/values are wrong. I'm saying this because I felt left out and strange that I don't find any of these fun. It makes me feel something is wrong with me for looking for a long term relationship.

    It just made me feel like I'm like a grown ass elderly looking for "eternal happiness and love".
    sounds like you could need new friends with which you could just chill and watch a movie

    theres nothing wrong with what you and them are doing, its just different priorities that youre setting for yourself which is very fine














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    Quote Originally Posted by niggo View Post
    what ?? someone actually posting a well thought out answer
    cant be MPGH general
    Mainly because I relate to it, I prefer a night in with a film/drinks rather than getting wasted and having a heavy hangover

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    Quote Originally Posted by Joe View Post
    Mainly because I relate to it, I prefer a night in with a film/drinks rather than getting wasted and having a heavy hangover
    but would you prefer to stay home alone and watch a movie or go out with friends in a bar and drink reasonable amounts of beer etc?

    cause i think id generally prefer to stay at home, but as with everything moderation is important














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    Quote Originally Posted by niggo View Post


    but would you prefer to stay home alone and watch a movie or go out with friends in a bar and drink reasonable amounts of beer etc?

    cause i think id generally prefer to stay at home, but as with everything moderation is important
    Probably a mix of the two every so often, but I think I prefer movie w/ mates and drinks etc

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    Try and create friends who might have the same values as you. If you have many differences, I am sure there is still common ground. Use those shared values to your advantage and that might help you establish better connections, networks, and friendships.

    It is normal to dream of having a long-lasting relationship; good to understand certain aspects of life and what can be done to pursue happiness at a young age.
    However, some people do enjoy clubbing, dating multiple people, etc. It might be freedom, or even experience. I am sure someone who specializes on psychology can answer that question for you.

    Regardless, happiness can only be achieved by yourself. It doesn't matter what other people say, or do, because people come and go. Don't worry about what other people do because that would be tiring for you. If you like watching movies at home alone, then just do it. It is being selfish, it is the practice of better mental health.
    There is the analogy whereby life is like travelling on a train. People enter the train at a certain stop, but they also leave when they reach their destination. Some you talk to, while majority of those you don't bother. At the same time, those people who you have built a friendship with may also leave at their stop. You will also leave once you reach your destination.

    Growing up is a process. It doesn't start at a specific age, but possibly through what we experience, and other external factors that influence our perception. It is good to learn and to experience. Just enjoy life

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hectard View Post
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    Quote Originally Posted by Demonz54 View Post
    Nothing unique, a lot of people enjoy loneliness, or at least, being in a quiet environment.

    I don't like going to the clubs either. We all have our own interests. I prefer to learn important stuff online like programming, foreign languages... or just to go out for a walk in a forest than hanging out with "friends".

    If you feel happier alone, then, stay alone and be happy.
    People won't be there for you since we're all individualists: you need to be happy without depending on others.
    Keep that in mind and take care of yourself first.
    Thanks for telling me that. I do indeed feel more comfortable being alone instead with being with a bunch if strangers. I should take care of myself instead of just pushing myself to be with my friends i guess.

    Quote Originally Posted by Mayion View Post
    what's the problem exactly? you not having good friends, or you not finding a relationship?
    I just don't feel secure in front of my friends because we have different interests.


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    Not everyone is the same, you should learn that early on. Some people love to go clubbing, get wasted whilst spending their paycheque and do random shit. Some people prefer a night in with a movie. Essentially it's all up to your likes and dislikes. If you don't enjoy going out with that set of friends, then find something you do enjoy doing with them and stick to that, then see if any other friends enjoy your other likes if it's a movie night, going to a show etc.
    Yeah you're right man. You really inspired me and I should stop pushing and forcing myself to stick with my friends. And like work on my own interests instead.

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    Quote Originally Posted by YungHa View Post
    Yeah you're right man. You really inspired me and I should stop pushing and forcing myself to stick with my friends. And like work on my own interests instead.
    Well that's kinda half of what I was getting at, but better than nothing

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