How many friends do you have?

**[MPGH]Ethereal** · 08-15-2014

I used to have quite a few friends, then they all started getting wifed up and don't want to do shit anymore.
I can't remember the last time I chilled with my old crew of friends. Easily years. My best friend died about 5 years ago,
he was considered the best because we grew up together and it didn't matter if we both had girlfriends, we'd always find time to chill.
Life is funny like that, it's like the older you get everyone around you sort of disperses or they change into something completely alien to you,
all the while, you still feel the same. I don't really mind it I guess.. Life is very temporary, it's not like I can take the fuckers with me after I expire.

But hey, I'm your bud

**[MPGH]KING** · 08-16-2014

Originally Posted by Czar

Honestly, I don't know what the fuck I did. Maybe I'm an insufferable cunt (likely), or maybe I've just completely changed what I'm interested in. Sadly, I think I'm out of friends. I've lent people money, taken people out to eat, bought booze for parties, offered rides, and been there for people for years... but I'm never involved in any activities with any of my acquaintances unless I initiate contact. I'm closer to my coworkers than anyone else currently. I buy gifts for their daughters, throw bridal showers, and come in to drop off baked goods on my day off. However, none of them know what I've done, or really even who I am.

I haven't seen a single "friend" in over 90 days. I didn't have a single person notice until yesterday.

-I don't drink
-I don't smoke
-I don't go to concerts
-I don't do drugs (anymore?)

I guess in the grand scheme of things it doesn't matter, I'll be leaving my current city in about a month for greener pastures. I just thought that I'd have some sort of going away party, or maybe someone to miss me when I'm gone. I thought that I'd have someone to look forward to coming back to visit, or someone that I could invite out for a drink. I don't have any of that, I'm consumed by work and my little side projects.

I'm slowly changing telephone numbers, removing social media accounts, and getting ready to move on. It feels weird.

This is likely the most serious thread I've posted in well over a year... How many friends do you have? What did I do?

ALSO EAT A DICK, I KNOW SOMEONE IS GOING TO BE A THUNDERCUNT IN THIS THREAD

I'm kinda in the same boat you are in man. I literally have 2 friends I see about once a week. But for a while I had none like you, though I blame it on work and school.

Now that I'm done with the one half of the problem (school) I've gotten back with 2 of my friends but before then I literally just had my twin brother. IDK, I would probably be a sad fuck like you if it wasn't for him. I'm not being degrading, im just admitting my luck.

I'll tell you how I am making more acquaintances though, who I hope become friends.
1. I signed up at a gym, find someone your age to workout with. For guys, it easy as faulk.
2.I found online a massive group of people who play Ultimate Frisbee from ages 19 -20's, So go look online site like "Meetup". Make friends through activities.

I know you want that friend who you can just hang out and it doesn't have to be an EVENT to be around, but I've learned since I'm like you in regards to all the partying, your going to have to find people at Events before they can become better friends.

I'm 25 and I've learned that your friend count drops with your age. Good luck my gay friend @Czar.
Stay Strong

**HeyWASSUP** · 08-17-2014

I AINT GOONA LIE I HAVE LIKE 50 FRIENDS AND I DONT REALLY TALK TO 47 OF THEM
SO I ONLY TALK LIKE TO 3 OF MY FRIENDS IF THEY TELL ME TO DO SOMETHING FOR THEM I WILL DO IT