Oh, I get it.
Gay - when something SUCKS.
Ha, very clever.
Not offensive?
So, if I call you a ******, that automatically means I hate black people?
If I call a black person, a ******, and in which I can be filed for hate speech, is that not offensive? Even when I am not trying to be racist?
Any word can be offensive to someone, even if it is overused. I refuse to join a CA clan (I know, CA ew). If I hear people saying, "That's gay."
Here's the main problem, when you try and be polite and goes, "That's lame" you're using a person with a physical problem-like in a wheelchair.
All words can be offensive, the word 'gay' in a negative term, is use by 99% of the younger population: 13-18.
As you mature, you don't use those words anymore, I admit I use "That's so gay". When I was a kid, but the main problem is when a kid goes, "You're gay," as a negative tone.