Realm Relay issue "CLI ENEMYHIT"

[gagger5]

when i run realm relay, then connect to to the proxy server (using cryo's new 19.5 mod selector), on the client it says "Connection failed! Retrying" and in the terminal rr is in, it says:

UniversalAutoAnswer loaded.
Connected to Socket[addr=/127.0.01,port=49998,localport=2050]
Waiting for HELLO from client...
CLI ENEMYHIT after10 before390
Disconnected Socket[addr=/127.0.01,port=49998,localport=2050]

then it repeats that over and over until i go to main screen or close the client.

I dont have the host files edited (dont have access, cant get it) but isnt there a way to connect without editing host?

How do I fix this error? Help???

[CrazyJani]

then connect to to the proxy server (using cryo's new 19.5 mod selector)

The mod selector doesn't do anything here

CLI ENEMYHIT after10 before390

You have wrong packet ids, update packets.xml

I dont have the host files edited

You don't need to edit them. To be exact you mustn't edit them

How do I fix this error?

update packets.xml

[gagger5]

ok...how do i update packets.xml?

ok...i updated it. but just for reference, can you explain it? i used the cheater method.

[CrazyJani]

i used the cheater method

Cheater method = ?

[gagger5]

had a friend give me his files.