my mom wants to "borrow" my money

[robater]

Hello there guys, I kinda have a tough decision to make. So yesterday, my mom came to me and wanted to "borrow" $100 and she didn't even really give me a reason, she just say,"I need it.". (inb4 drugs) The problemo I'm having is that first of all this is $100 that I worked for not from some McDonalds restaurant, last time she needed to "BORROW" money was back in July when she again "needed" $50 and she never returned the money even though she said she'd bother it, and whenever I bring up the $50 dollar thing she goes into this pissed off mode but silent imagine a kid before his tantrum blowing air out of his nose, and she looks at me thinking "wtf are you starin at mate".

Anyway, I don't know if I should trust her with $100, she is my mom and I owe her for that but mate I don't want to lose $100. What would you do in my shoes?

[hidudeshi]

Hello there guys, I kinda have a tough decision to make. So yesterday, my mom came to me and wanted to "borrow" $100 and she didn't even really give me a reason, she just say,"I need it.". (inb4 drugs) The problemo I'm having is that first of all this is $100 that I worked for not from some McDonalds restaurant, last time she needed to "BORROW" money was back in July when she again "needed" $50 and she never returned the money even though she said she'd bother it, and whenever I bring up the $50 dollar thing she goes into this pissed off mode but silent imagine a kid before his tantrum blowing air out of his nose, and she looks at me thinking "wtf are you starin at mate".

Anyway, I don't know if I should trust her with $100, she is my mom and I owe her for that but mate I don't want to lose $100. What would you do in my shoes?

Don't give her the money, if shes gonna throw tantrums for no reason because she is not paying you back then don't give in. Chances are it is drugs or maybe she is satisfying some outside lover with money for whatever reason.

[ydocsmada]

fuck that. tell her you'll get her what she needs.

[Arrow]

Well if you are in a state that you can afford to do this then yes you should lend/give her a 100 bucks

I mean she did raise you and prob has spent so much money on raising you

and she is your mom not to say that you would but personally i would do anything for my mom

[[MPGH]Dave84311]

Does she put a roof over your house and spend money towards your well-being? If the answer is yes, you know what to do.

[robater]

Well if you are in a state that you can afford to do this then yes you should lend/give her a 100 bucks

I mean she did raise you and prob has spent so much money on raising you

and she is your mom not to say that you would but personally i would do anything for my mom

Nah mate I don't have a job, I'm 16 years old.

[Arrow]

Nah mate I don't have a job, I'm 16 years old.

Idk man its your decision but if i were you I would do it

[Riigged]

shes your mother
lend her money, whether she pays you back or not, and if you dont, youre just a little ungrateful punk.

[[MPGH]Mayion]

I don't know if I should trust her with $100

I might say something that bothers you, so instead I will stay silent

[Czar]

Lend her the money? Give it to her you cheeky fuck.

[robater]

Lend her the money? Give it to her you cheeky fuck.

you act like shes going to give it back. I'm going to give it to her anyway because shes my mom and has probably spent 100x the money I am giving her on me but ffs I am pissed.

[Aborted]

You can be pissed when you live on your own and pay your own bills.

[Terror]

Give her the money?

[H!nt]

Make a thread about asking for help whatever or not to give her money or not and then he says, anyway am gonna give it to her.... You could've come up with this without making a thread, and after all, she's done everything to you so you could have a nice life.

[slayer8028]

You are 16 yo, probably living with her so if you don't have any money you can still "live" because she's paying the house and food, so I would give her the money.