Just read through your thread and the case was kinda shakey to begin with (not saying they are right). The "left with man" could be taken a number of ways which didn't help your case. I've purchased a good amount of clothing refund so far and was about to go with sean since his price was cheap but talking to him rubbed me the wrong way so I decided against it. Sorry about you case but there's not much you can do, the mods have already decided
For future use though, there are plenty of other refunder that are patient and nice. I would recommend Nice since he walks you through everything and you dont have to pay till AFTER the refund is done. I had a problem with my target order and he was willing to call 3-5 times to sort it out. Next time do some looking around before you pick someone. Paying 10% instead of 8% isnt that much of a difference especially if you order is > $200-300.