blockchain / stellar are the berst
the reason is because bitcoin value got so high and thats the reason for transaction fees it got higher than usual.
I'm currently using Electrum for my hot wallet and they are able to give you tons of options to choose how fast you want to send etc. Will be a bit of a struggle if you don't know how to optimize, but it's worth a try.
Electrum is a good option if you want to control the fees.
Electrum you can set any fee you want on it
You can adjust fees manually with Electrum!Saved me a bunch of times where instead of paying 15$ for a transaction you can do 5$(It just gets delayed)
You can use 3rd party wallet like coinbase and they will take care of the fees or you can always use other cryptocurrency to make purchase like ETH,LTC or CARDANO
you can still adjust in blockchain however be careful i got one with low fee since 11 days..