[Poll] Is Killingdyl a Douche

[killingdyl]

Well another modder whos name(eekhoorn) shall be kept secret(eekhoorn) says that

[its]Eekhoorn: Everybody kinda hates you
[its]Eekhoorn: because your always negative about people and there mods
[its]Eekhoorn: and your productivity for blackops is absolutely 0,0

He says im negative but this was my response

TMS_KillingDyl: do you think someone does better if you tell them sweetly?
TMS_KillingDyl: "oh its ok you can do better next time, odnt worry about it"
TMS_KillingDyl: no that doesnt make them better

I truly believe that just being nice to someone that did something wrong wont help them improve

So i just want an honest answer, no one will be able to see what you voted for.

TMS_KillingDyl: im hated?
TMS_KillingDyl: make a poll on s7
TMS_KillingDyl: then
[its]Eekhoorn: rofl yeh you got xbox friends while on pc
TMS_KillingDyl: make a poll on ******* then
TMS_KillingDyl: make a poll on mpgh
[its]Eekhoorn: rofl
[its]Eekhoorn: all modders got the pick of you
[its]Eekhoorn: Because
[its]Eekhoorn: all you do is blame people they suck at modding
[its]Eekhoorn: your so ego you always say your the god
[its]Eekhoorn: you never release a s***
[its]Eekhoorn: you steal ideas
[its]Eekhoorn: and you claim you find out s***

[Heartview]

Its called constructive criticism. Telling people only that they did wrong, and that they are bad, is a good way to kill self-esteem especially for people who are new. Insulting them and saying, oh well I could have done it better, actually does make you look like a douche, and in the end only hurts the people who you are insulting, along side yourself.

But on the other hand, its true that without some kind of guidance, people may never learn from their mistakes. But it helps if you dont try and make it sound as if you could have done it better, even though you might have been able to. Being friendly when criticizing people also really helps to, as they will take it as you trying to help them, instead of you trying to hog some kind of spotlight. (some people just QQ about all criticism, but those people dont really deserve any in the first place then)

I am however going to avoid a poll for this, because I have no idea who the fuck you are. Meaning I dont know how it is you criticize people, or if people agree with what you say. And also, I really try to stay out of these popularity contests of testosterone pumped kids on the internet. But thats my 2 cents anyways.

[sh_z_sektor]

I don't understand what this means

[B4M]

Why would we care?

/closed