Originally Posted by
Azathᴏth
Obsession puts a girl off. You were way too obsessive. All the shit you said to her was wrong. She didn't dislike you, otherwise she wouldn't have agreed to stay friends. You wanted validation through her approval, that was wrong. That makes you look weak and insecure. Best thing you could've done with her was stay friends, but express your interest through flirtation, eye contact, intimate contact, etc. That way you can avoid her freindzoning you. But don't obsess over her, don't put her on a pedestal, and don't nag her about everything and anything, demanding her company. Do other things to occupy your time so that you don't seem needy. Act confident around her. Females first and foremost look for confidence. If you're going to act like an insecure limp dick, you'll never get a girl.