Originally Posted by
Frost
There is nothing wrong with masturbating.
Watching pornography on the other hand is a self-control issue.
I have high self control, but fapping is something I'd rather not stop. Not because of the 'fun(which I don't even think is fun after having done it so many times)' but because I'd rather go in the shower and do 'it' quickly then having to wake up with a wet blanket.
Here is a little bit of my self-made psychology:
If you restrict yourself from doing something(like smoking)because you like it and can't stop it, you will most likely end up doing it more then when you've started, so that quitting will become even harder because you experienced a failed stopping attempt, and will probably fail the next attempt aswell as your mind thinks so.
Self control is something that builds up with self respect. If you have self respect, you have self control. You gain self respect by proving your body to your mind by achieving things that seemed hard to you.
'confidence'
Here is one for ya:
In Chechnya, a Chechen Special Forces group had to masturbate 5 times(in a discrete manner ofcourse)before they were deployed, just to prevent sexual abuse on civillians on their mission.