Does she like me?

Hey guys,

Maybe MPGH is not the most appropriate place for this topic, since it's full of geeks, but anyway.

I regularly take a coffee in town before going back home (at this moment, 1h30 of train and car awaits me).
There is a café, just in front of the train station, and one of the waitresses always welcomes me
with a great smile, and sometimes, with a wink. I noticed she never does that to the other customers.

First, I thought it was all about marketing/business to welcome me that way. But yesterday, after one week of
not going in their café (let's say, I slept enough and 2 coffees - 1 at home and 1 at work - were just fine), she
said to me: "thanks for coming back sir".

This is the first time ever that someone cares about my presence in their business, and since she's just an employee,
I don't think she cares that much about who comes to buy a drink.

Is it related to the fact she's a stranger: maybe american, or from an english speaking country?
Is it specific to the english-speaking culture to act that way?

What do you think about it?

She wants the 100$ tip.

Originally Posted by Janitor

She wants the 100$ tip.

She's working for the tip "sir"

might be more, if you like her ask her out

I am sure people here will hate you for this post and your profile picture

You must give her a sign back and approach her in your own way, all depends on when you know her well. Goodluck

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AS SOON AS POSSIBLE^^

Originally Posted by Janitor

She wants the 100$ tip.

That's what I'm wondering, but in this case, why wouldn't she treat all their customers that way?

Originally Posted by Hector

I am sure people here will hate you for this post and your profile picture

Ahaha, my profile pic is a picture of Risitas, surrounded by MPGH's aliens, and protecting his brain with aluminum foil.
Risitas is this guy:

In my country (France), this guy is a legend.

There are songs remixes made with his voice / laugh:

Weird animations:

People put him in shops, with high volume.

We even have a website to get all risitas smileys such as:

This is so funny. In real life, I'm young, handsome and well dressed, as I work in an office for an international company.

Originally Posted by Meymo

You must give her a sign back and approach her in your own way, all depends on when you know her well. Goodluck

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AS SOON AS POSSIBLE^^

Yeah this is a good idea. I could try to speak to her, to see if she's interested in the conversation, or if she justs want to sell and say goodbye.

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Originally Posted by Ticherhaz

First of all, is she almost same age with you? Second, do you know her name?

Yes we are almost the same age, and no, I don't know her name

Originally Posted by azerty54

That's what I'm wondering, but in this case, why wouldn't she treat all their customers that way?

Ahaha, my profile pic is a picture of Risitas, surrounded by MPGH's aliens, and protecting his brain with aluminum foil.
Risitas is this guy:

In my country (France), this guy is a legend.

There are songs remixes made with his voice / laugh:

Weird animations:

People put him in shops, with high volume.

We even have a website to get all risitas smileys such as:

This is so funny. In real life, I'm young, handsome and well dressed, as I work in an office for an international company.

Yeah this is a good idea. I could try to speak to her, to see if she's interested in the conversation, or if she justs want to sell and say goodbye.

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Yes we are almost the same age, and no, I don't know her name

Originally Posted by azerty54

Hey guys,

Maybe MPGH is not the most appropriate place for this topic, since it's full of geeks, but anyway.

I regularly take a coffee in town before going back home (at this moment, 1h30 of train and car awaits me).
There is a café, just in front of the train station, and one of the waitresses always welcomes me
with a great smile, and sometimes, with a wink. I noticed she never does that to the other customers.

First, I thought it was all about marketing/business to welcome me that way. But yesterday, after one week of
not going in their café (let's say, I slept enough and 2 coffees - 1 at home and 1 at work - were just fine), she
said to me: "thanks for coming back sir".

This is the first time ever that someone cares about my presence in their business, and since she's just an employee,
I don't think she cares that much about who comes to buy a drink.

Is it related to the fact she's a stranger: maybe american, or from an english speaking country?
Is it specific to the english-speaking culture to act that way?

What do you think about it?

First of all, is she almost same age with you? Second, do you know her name?