so i need help. not trolling

my nephew passed away in april 26 of this year.
were all still very upset. but my sister has it the
worse. she is fucking stressed out and since his
burrial, shes been drinking heavily. and i mean
heavily. a gallon to a gallon and a half of vodka
everyday. i just want to know your guys' opinion
on what i should or could do to help her out.

no fucking trolling on here. serious shit. if you
have something fucking stupid to say dont say it.

Do something to cheer her up, anything I suppose is better then what she is currently doing.

Take her to some cool places :/

hide the Vodka from her

she never wants to leave her house though.
shes always in there. and when i go over,
she just sits quietly. ive slept over a couple times
and she just cries at night. her husband tries to
help her but he even came to me asking for help

Do funny things,surprises to her, (make breakfast with roses,etc. /)

Bring in some relatives someone that is very close to her in a family manner.

Make her see the brighter things in life, and if she's religious, then tell her that god did it for a reason, and that your nephew did what he had to do in life and now he's up in heaven with a god and jesus.

have an intervention

Originally Posted by AVGN

have an intervention

This ^ .

First off, my condolences.

Do something kinda like was Time said.

Have a small surprise party/get-together with close relatives and friends.

Sit down with her.
Be firm but not aggressive.
Make her feel better.

If that fails.
COUNSELING.

Throwing a party sounds good. But it might just cause her to breakdown. Other then that just be a good brother. Talk to her husband about things maybe the two of you can come up with something.

I have a couple sisters and i understand how worried u are. The only advice I can give u right now tho is try just sitting there with her. First dont talk just sit there and in a bit start to talk. Just try to be there for her when she needs you, and right now she really needs you.

How old was your nephew / what happened , etc;

so i need help. not trolling

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