Originally Posted by
Dave84311
I don't get how people can be "pro-life" and be okay with giving away their kids; if you ask me that is more cruel. While there is nothing wrong with adoption but putting a child in a situation where they are more than likely to suffer from mental illness (depression, anxiety, attachment disorder and other more severe mental illnesses) is wrong and immoral. They are also as risk of abuse and being stuck in a system until they are 18. If you think I'm wrong, imagine finding out that you were adopted. Think about what would be going through your mind; why did my parents give me up? I am alone. Who can I trust? Are you my mother? Having such thoughts is good for no one and can lead to road where there is no coming back. One of my friends found out they were adopted when they were 17; until that point he thought his parents were his birth parents. This dude flips out, moves across the country and never talks to his adopted parents again. Another one of my friends is adopted and he has self harmed on too many occasions and even tried to kill himself on several occasions. Another was adopted, ended up doing opiods to deal with the pain, he died two or three years ago. To say adoption is a solution to abortions is fucking stupid and anyone who thinks otherwise hasn't lived the life of an adopted kid or is too dumb to empathize. Pro lifers are often religious or to immature to understand the repercussions, that or they got aborted on and wonder what could have been. Being pro life is along the lines of a bitch keeping a kid because they are lonely, and the father being stuck with the child support. sad