It's not a relationship when there's no arguments involved (Not saying every relationship but most of them). I'm emotionally unstable right now, things have been getting worst for me. My girlfriend shut me off completely by pointing out what's wrong with me, no self worth and pathetic. Every convo I started are always based on her interest. I admit I was being too clingy and emotional dependent on her. I was pressuring her too much and didn't give her personal space. She didn't break up with me yet but I can feel it's on the verge of happening anytime soon. She told me to love myself. How do you find love in yourself? How do you find who you are and become yourself?