My current situation.

So there's this girl in my classroom, she is my crush (she has boyfriend), we aren't like best friends but we talk each other almost everyday. This is our last year in Highschool and at the end of the year we have like this graduation dance thing (I'm not sure how you guys call it in your country). She will enter with me and I'm planning to tell her my feelings (like alone somewhere during the party) but the problem is she told me if everything is going okay (probably will), her boyfriend is going to go to the party.

So I don't know what to do. Sincerely, she's reason why I am either happy or sad, she doesn't know anything of this. I know it was a dumb decision not to tell my feelings after 2 years.

But hey. Any advices are welcome.

If you guys have a friend-ish relationship, then I'd suggest going to the dance with her and telling her your feelings. She might prefer you over her boyfriend, who knows? Just be honest with her, and don't do anything to make her feel bad. Just be a good friend, and sometime she will realize that you are a good person.

Originally Posted by alobalo

I don't want to put her in a bad situation where I'll tell my feelings when she has a boyfriend. It may suck tho. About being a good friend, I think I am a good friend and she knows that but none of this matters if she has a BF (atleast that's my way to think)

I don't see why her having a boyfriend is a problem. It's not like he's going to beat you up for liking her and I don't see your relationship getting ugly because there's nothing wrong with multiple people having a crush on the same person, she should know that. Just tell her how you feel about her. I hate to say this but nothing will most likely change expect her perception of you. Whether that be good or bad is up to her but it'll definately feel damn good getting this all of your chest. And hey, maybe you'll get lucky and she'll come back for you if something happens between her and current boyfriend.

Is the boyfriend an asshole?

Originally Posted by Conquerable

"I hate to say this but nothing will most likely change expect her perception of you". I know this is the truth. I just won't accept it, I would give everything to change this. It's too late, is it?

Originally Posted by Terror

Is the boyfriend an asshole?

No idea. I only know him by photos. I don't think so, otherwise, she wouldn't be with him.

Originally Posted by Stack

"I hate to say this but nothing will most likely change expect her perception of you". I know this is the truth. I just won't accept it, I would give everything to change this. It's too late, is it?

Will you be able to be in contact with her once HS ends? And will you be able to physically meet her or will you guys be far apart and/or seperated by some signifigant feature?

hmmm, just go tell her man, like the fact that I told my crush about my feelings, she also admitted she was feeling the same way with me and yeah

look meng, either way the worst that could happen is she not feel the same way, so just fucking go for it, thinking about what she is gonna say will not get you anywhere. Actions before words.

Originally Posted by Conquerable

Will you be able to be in contact with her once HS ends? And will you be able to physically meet her or will you guys be far apart?

Put [/QUOTE] after is it, it is not showing as a quote xD

Originally Posted by Conquerable

Will you be able to be in contact with her once HS ends? And will you be able to physically meet her or will you guys be far apart?

Probably, we will be living in the same town unless she has any other plans. We won't be seeing each other everyday.

Originally Posted by Freeze

hmmm, just go tell her man, like the fact that I told my crush about my feelings, she also admitted she was feeling the same way with me and yeah

How did it go?

Originally Posted by Chaos

look meng, either way the worst that could happen is she not feel the same way, so just fucking go for it, thinking about what she is gonna say will not get you anywhere. Actions before words.

What's the point of telling her that if she's not feeling the same for me? I mean, it'd be the same tell her or not.

Originally Posted by Stack

Probably, we will be living in the same town unless she has any other plans. We won't be seeing each other everyday.

How did it go?

What's the point of telling her that if she's not feeling the same for me? I mean, it'd be the same tell her or not.

not really, at least this way you have some type of closure and can move forward. Also who knows, maybe things will work out for the two of you guys.

Take it from me:
Don't tell her what you feel about her. Don't make shit awkward, don't ruin a what-could-be and turn it into a never-will-be.
Forget her and move on

She isn't meant to be yours.
This ain't some notebook love story shit, be real lol

@Freeze I noticed, half awake at this points, thanks though

@Stack You guys aren't going to a uni are something? Is her boyfriend going to?

Life's short, don't miss an opportunity. 'Rejection' (if that's what you'd call it in this case) isn't even that bad, I'm talking as a man with experience

But don't be that guy who waits 20 years, goes to a high school reunion when she's already settled down, and then says to her "oh btw I actually had feelings for you the whole of highschool".

My current situation.

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