this is what i did
C:\Users\****>nrelay --force-update
[20:32:23 | NRelay] Starting...
[20:32:23 | NRelay] Forcing an update...
[20:32:23 | Updater] Downloading latest client.swf
[20:32:23 | Updater] Downloading latest GroundTypes.json
[20:32:23 | Updater] Downloading latest Objects.json
[20:32:24 | Updater] Downloaded GroundTypes.json
[20:32:26 | Updater] Downloaded client.swf
[20:32:26 | Updater] Downloaded Objects.json
[20:32:26 | Updater] Unpacking client.swf
[20:32:33 | Updater] Unpacked client.swf
[20:32:33 | Updater] Updating assets
[20:32:33 | Updater] Updated PacketType enum
[20:32:33 | Updater] Finished! Rebuild the source to apply the update.
C:\Users\****>nrelay gulp
[20:32:39 | NRelay] Starting...
[20:32:39 | NRelay] Checking for updates...
[20:32:40 | NRelay] An update is available. Downloading...
[20:32:40 | Updater] Downloading latest client.swf
[20:32:40 | Updater] Downloading latest GroundTypes.json
[20:32:40 | Updater] Downloading latest Objects.json
[20:32:41 | Updater] Downloaded client.swf
[20:32:41 | Updater] Downloaded GroundTypes.json
[20:32:42 | Updater] Downloaded Objects.json
[20:32:42 | Updater] Unpacking client.swf
[20:32:47 | Updater] Unpacked client.swf
[20:32:47 | Updater] Updating assets
[20:32:47 | Updater] Updated PacketType enum
[20:32:47 | Updater] Finished! Rebuild the source to apply the update.
C:\Users\****>nrelay
[20:39:35 | NRelay] Starting...
[20:39:35 | NRelay] Checking for updates...
[20:39:36 | NRelay] Adding Main Client
[20:39:36 | ResourceManager] Loaded 1283 tiles.
[20:39:36 | ResourceManager] Loaded 8334 objects.
[20:39:36 | PluginManager] Loaded Hello Plugin by tcrane
[20:39:36 | PluginManager] Loaded Player Tracker by tcrane
[20:39:37 | Main Client] Starting connection to USNorthWest
[20:39:37 | NRelay] Authorized Main Client
[20:39:37 | Main Client] Connected to USNorthWest!
[20:39:37 | Main Client] The connection to USNorthWest was closed.
[20:39:37 | Main Client] Reconnecting in 5 seconds
[20:39:43 | Main Client] Connected to USNorthWest!
[20:39:43 | Main Client] The connection to USNorthWest was closed.
[20:39:43 | Main Client] Reconnecting in 5 seconds