Been cheated on before?

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Been cheated on before?
Kinda curious if you guys ever experienced it and how you handled it. My ex recently did 2 days ago, and it's just been a shit coaster of emotions.
It honestly sucks.
No, but I've done the cheating. Worst mistake of my life. Was so guilt ridden that I drove to her work 5 days after it happened and told her she can't be with me because I'm an unfaithful piece of shit. But, we talked it through and came out stronger.

Do what you feel is best. But personally, I'm not strong enough to stay with someone that has betrayed me in such a way. Though I've done it myself, I just couldn't handle it if it happened to me - if that makes any sense.
Yes, but it wasn't a long relationship so it didn't hit me
sucks man can only imagine how shitty that must be

me & my wife have set boundaries
if she or i are no longer attracted or no longer want each other we just say it and split properly

but we're besties so not counting on it

though as a man instincts play in and have you look at multiple women, but this is where you need to have character and draw the line to not cheat or go in on those feelings
I have, I think I posted about it a few years ago tbh. Pretty terrible.
Yep, just pushed the feelings down for them to bubble up sometime down the road like with most things

It's going to suck for awhile but you're better off without them if they're willing to cheat on you
Not yet, I think.. Could have been but I've never caught em or got any of the wiser.
I've never cheated on anyone, I'm just too honest about it.
The other way around, I've been cheated on several times, which of course was really stupid, the worst thing was that they never told me the truth.
got cheated on 3 times in a row in 3 different relationship

it's like a deja vu feeling at this point
Quote Originally Posted by Ryuk View Post
Kinda curious if you guys ever experienced it and how you handled it. My ex recently did 2 days ago, and it's just been a shit coaster of emotions.
It honestly sucks.
I've never been cheated on, but here's how I would handle it:

You cut the person off and move on. There's a certain level of disrespect required to cheat on a partner, when you cross that line you cannot come back.

Take time if you need it and focus on shit you want to do, or move on with someone else and fuck the grief out of your system.

Accept that what you are feeling is normal and a necessary step for you to move on. You will get past the feelings and won't care 1-2 years down the line when you have an established relationship with someone else. Sounds stupid but getting cheated on is probably amazing for personal development (what doesn't kill you makes you stronger).
If things have already ended, block them from all social media. Delete all photos you have with them.
You don't need that person in your life. Someone better will come along.
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