Initial thoughts:
Well, i wonder how this goes. I kicked him from my server for flying, since it was an unfair advantage. I wonder if he will be nice to me.
So I join, we're all good and I ask him what mod he's running all nice and stuff, then I ask to be put in the jail group to test it out, so I do and i could build/destroy, even though, it wasn't suppost to. I was helping him with the server testing stuff, for fun. It was a positive enviorment.
Then he tp's me to the jail full of obsidian and shit. I change the sigh that said "Welcome to Jail" or some shit to "Fuck jail lol" and he goes "Thats griefing, 1 day ban" Wtf, I knew I couldn't be in the server without him scouting me and he even said it.
He said at one point"
"Oh insane
i didn't want to say this but
one slip up
one mis destroy block (or something)
and ban"