try this after compiling?...
(% = no space)
open a VB console
make a folder, and put both the .exe and the icon you want.
type in vbc, space, and drag in the exe onto the command prompt.
then another space, and then /out: then put in i new temp name, then another space,
then type in /%win32icon: then drag in the icon, and hit enter.
or, copy below changing whats relivant.
vbc appname.exe /out:appnamenew.exe /%win32icon:iconname.ico
blubb, that sould like it would work?