Well first of all you sure as hell don't fuck some meaningless person, or at least not until your sure they really love you. And trust me. My two step sisters have done this, and there life is seriously FUCKED up. Beyond repair. Not even funny. I tell you I'm not going to get raped by some random whore who doesn't give a shit about me. Secondly if you don't want gossip on about you then don't tell anyone. You can't blame people for being curious =S I mean they don't go around the school telling everyone about it. You tell your friend they tell there friend,brother or sister, then they tell there friends, etc.. So its not done on purpose. Unless its by those fucking short annoying prepy kids. Overall you have one person to blame, yourself, for not making it private, or for trusting a moron.