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Originally Posted by J Miliam

Bad relationship advice is bad. Not that she shouldn't be dating, but she should get to know the guy more before dating.

Otherwise, that's what all girls do before they get REALLY get hurt.

And you probably didn't know all the information about the relationship, which is what a lot of girls do, so I wouldn't say she's dumb for going back.

I see where your getting at bro. She hardly knew the guy for about 3 weeks lol. I basically get to the point in telling her that she shouldn't be with guys that you only known for like 3 weeks, but with guys that you've known for a good time, and your sure that he's good and willing to be with you. All girls do that; plain and simple. I didn't know much about the relationship, like I said in one of my comments I think, she did tell me that it wasn't a good break up, and from that you can easily improvise that the boy who broke did was in fact; a bad choice.

Bottom line, she talks, shit happens, 5 minutes later shes back. I give myself a big /fp or a big

for that, because it's ridiculous. Why would you want to be with a guy that broke up with you for something stupid? Maybe he regretted doing it? Maybe he had problems? I don't know. People around my school don't do that, they're hesitant; as if they want to get something done swiftly. Their reasons for a break up are arguably stupid, whether its "your to much for me", or "your not my type".

I don't find the advice that I give to be bad in any way, because its supposed to help them understand where they went wrong, and to learn from your mistakes, and don't be the you that was in that situation; be the person of yourself. I do it all the time, for some people, it doesn't work, because like what happened now, they go back with the guy, and 1 week later, break up. It's bullcrap, make up your mind. Don't go out with the same guy three times in a week. It's the same story on and on, and it annoys me how they ask for my help or my personal advice on what to do.

Originally Posted by Reflex-

Maybe she was desperate for a BF

I don't know myself. I don't see what goes on in a ladies mind. All I have to do is guess and hope for the best, which isn't the most intelligent thing, but it's the least I can do. Personally, a responsible girl like her, she would not be desperate. She might have had a bit to much of an infatuation which then led her to do that, which basically is like what you said; she's desperate for a boyfriend.

People want sympathy and attention not advice. Lol. If she was as upset with the situation as she implied she was she would fix it on her own.

Originally Posted by x.navi.x

People want sympathy and attention not advice. Lol. If she was as upset with the situation as she implied she was she would fix it on her own.

, I know what you mean. It's sort of both that I give, really. They willingfully want come to me and confront saying they need advice. So I don't hesitate to give them advice. Certain girls I know can't fix crap for themselves. They aren't stand up, filled with pride human beings. They tend to hide behind their friends that will probably help them with a solution to the matter. I'm not the judge of who can fix their situations though. It's really up to her on how she wants to, I'm only there to support and help her out in a situation like this one. I don't know how she'll handle it whatsoever. If she does somehow handle things out, then it'll be great. But for the most time, she can't.

I really don't like people that don't listen to my advice and they get into shit or something.
I forgot the situation but I hate it.

Originally Posted by Stevenom

I really don't like people that don't listen to my advice and they get into shit or something.
I forgot the situation but I hate it.

Mmhm. Same thing happens to me here. Sadly, they don't take what I say seriously and end up into big shit, then they ask for some sympathy and advice on next steps on what to do, but it still ends up going there way with getting in yet another relationship with the same guy.

, It doesn't work any more.

Same thing happens to me. Most girls listen to my advice, but the few who don't regret it within a week

If you're trying to get at her you might as well just give up and go for someone else.

Originally Posted by Boombox

If you're trying to get at her you might as well just give up and go for someone else.

Lol, it's not me going for her. I don't do relationships any more. She came to me asking for sympathy and advice on what to do.

She's a slut. Next time she asks for advice demand a wet deep wet blow job.

Originally Posted by Mr.1337

She's a slut. Next time she asks for advice demand a wet deep wet blow job.

Nope, she isn't. She's smart, passionate about what she does, and she doesn't dress like a slut either. She's just dimensional in her own world, she doesn't know whats right and wrong, despite the situation of having people telling her the right steps, for example how I'm trying to get her on the better side of the story.

She broke up yet again. She came to me, I talked about it for the fourth time, hope times come around again where she won't neglect me and others trying to help her out.

If she gets back with him again, I will not help her again. It's a waste time helping those who barely listen to what you have to say.

Doesn't mean all advices are true.

Originally Posted by Nyan

Doesn't mean all advices are true.

That tends to be a dispute that can't be solved. Yeah, of course its true that not all advice is true and is sustainable enough to solve an issue, but its suppose to help someone go on the correct road, or at least lead someone to it.

Originally Posted by Hero

That tends to be a dispute that can't be solved. Yeah, of course its true that not all advice is true and is sustainable enough to solve an issue, but its suppose to help someone go on the correct road, or at least lead someone to it.

Yeah, I guess you're right.

Its just girls they are just we will never get them

We got a Dr.Phil right here at MPGH!

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