Love or Obsession?

user590177 · 2012-01-19T18:30:44.000Z

[QUOTE=Embrehh;5680580] You can't 'love' someone based on their looks. You can merely be interested and want to get to know them.[/QUOTE] But it still ain't obsession? I mean come on I'm stuck at this! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YlXOAEvupFU

Originally Posted by Seabound

You can't 'love' someone based on their looks. You can merely be interested and want to get to know them.

But it still ain't obsession? I mean come on I'm stuck at this!

Originally Posted by Seabound

You can't 'love' someone based on their looks. You can merely be interested and want to get to know them.

But let us look at the definition of "Love" then, shall we? "An intense feeling of deep affection". Synonyms of this are "affection - fondness - darling - passion".

All attraction starts on a physical level. You don't become interested in someone based on their personality first, as you come to know the physical traits of someone beforehand. If we are going to talk "literally", considering you're such a skeptic, then "literally" you can in fact "love" at first site, for the mere definition of love allows it.

Originally Posted by user590177

I don't even know her name lol FML.

@HW$%yh5eh5ea5heheh5 Dude that's what I did. And it kinda worked she used to look at me and smile you know that type of smile with a bit of shyness? Then I became really shy and couldn't even see her in her eyes. Then everything got fucked up. I hope that I would see her again when I get back to her city and that she's single.

Well learning her name would be a good place to start

But seriously, you have to show her you are not too shy (girls love soft-sides, but not when you are too nervous to talk to them). You can't let your fears of something going badly block you from her. Just show off your sweet side (assuming she is still single). Get her number, start talking (learn what she likes and work with it. Do not talk about anything you don't think she would like). Eventually it will all build up, and you should be set. If she has a boyfriend, just wait for them to break up and be there right away when they break up. Support her through the break up and show that you care for her.

Originally Posted by HW$%yh5eh5ea5heheh5

Well learning her name would be a good place to start

But seriously, you have to show her you are not too shy (girls love soft-sides, but not when you are too nervous to talk to them). You can't let your fears of something going badly block you from her. Just show off your sweet side (assuming she is still single). Get her number, start talking (learn what she likes and work with it. Do not talk about anything you don't think she would like). Eventually it will all build up, and you should be set. If she has a boyfriend, just wait for them to break up and be there right away when they break up. Support her through the break up and show that you care for her.

I need to drink a lot of RedBull first

On top of what Derkman said, if she has a boyfriend, be her bestfriend. It's better to start off as friends if a girl has a boyfriend, because it more-often then not leads to her having affection for her bestfriend (as long as he shows he cares more than the boyfriend). Everytime her and her boyfriend get in a fight, tell her how she's right in the whole situation, but don't over do it. Small things like that really go a long way.

Why all this have to be so hard?

Originally Posted by user590177

Why all this have to be so hard?

You're dealing with a woman, and they always make shit more difficult than it has to be

Originally Posted by Lehsyrus

You're dealing with a woman, and they always make shit more difficult than it has to be

Yeah I guess this is why there aren't fags who are still virgin.

Originally Posted by user590177

Yeah I guess this is why there aren't fags who are still virgin.

Sooo true there man.

Originally Posted by Lehsyrus

Sooo true there man.

What if I get a friend to talk with her and then he can get me in a convo?

Originally Posted by user590177

What if I get a friend to talk with her and then he can get me in a convo?

Girls pick up on that kind of thing. But if you were to do that, make sure your friend is less attractive than you are, and has a terrible personality.

Originally Posted by Lehsyrus

Girls pick up on that kind of thing. But if you were to do that, make sure your friend is less attractive than you are, and has a terrible personality.

He is funny and sociable as fuck, IDK about the 'beautifulness', IDK how to rate but he has a cool look after all. Yeah all what I should do is just go ahead by myself.

Originally Posted by user590177

He is funny and sociable as fuck, IDK about the 'beautifulness', IDK how to rate but he has a cool look after all. Yeah all what I should do is just go ahead by myself.

Definitely don't let him talk to her then, bitches love sociable guys.

Could be a crush? You won't hurt her, don't think like that. I'd say a good start would be finding out what her name is and then talking to her. I know its hard for the first time, tust me i know. It was like that for me and my girl friend. Just be yourself, god luck

I say its just love :3

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