wow im surprised at your patience. I tried as long as 2 hours and I gave up and slept. lol
Wait, you get that "please try again after logging in through the website" error everytime or what?
If it is, your account is most likely banned.
If it's not, try restarting your computer?
may i know did you follow the method that giving using aol?
example in youtube there is a way to connect it..
like this one