go to
RemoteToolkit forum and download the one that say For server administrators.
once you have done that move all the stuff in serverdir to your server folder and rename ypur craftbukkit.........jar to craftbukkit.jar so remove all the extras after craftbukkit.
now start rtoolkit.bat now it shod run the server like normal.
Console Commands
Note that all console commands pertaining to the wrapper are preceded by a single period ('.').
.help - Displays the list of console commands recognized by the wrapper.
.hold - Stops the server until .unhold is used. This is useful if you want to perform an update to Bukkit without stopping the wrapper.
.unhold - Unholds a held server.
.modules - Displays the list of currently loaded Toolkit Modules.
.shutdowntime - Displays the time left until the next Toolkit shutdown.
.restarttime - Displays the time left until the next server restart.
.restart - Gracefully restarts the Minecraft server.
.reschedulerestart <time> - Reschedules the next restart. The time parameter can either be in either the #h #m #s format, or the HH:MM format.
.rescheduleshutdown <time> - (Re)schedules a Toolkit shutdown. The time parameter can either be in either the #h #m #s format, or the HH:MM format.
.cancelshutdown <time> - Cancels a scheduled Toolkit shutdown.
.stopwrapper - Stops the wrapper along with the server.
.users - Displays the list of users currently registered with the Toolkit.
.useradd <name> <password> - Adds a user to the Toolkit.
.userremove <name> - Removes a user from the Toolkit.
.set <option> <value> - Sets a value to an option. (NOTE: Enter '.set help' for a list of valid options and values)
.version - Displays the version of the wrapper.
In-game commands
/restartsrv <[username:]password> - Restart the server from in-game. If no username is provided, then the player's username will be substituted.
/reschedulerestart <[username:]password> <time> - Reschedules the next server restart. The time parameter can either be in either the #h #m #s format, or the HH:MM format. If no username is provided, then the player's name will be substituted.
/stopwrapper <[username:]password> - Stops both the server and the Toolkit. THIS WILL SHUT THE SERVER DOWN AND WILL NOT RESTART IT
portforwarding
You have to open port 2011 and 2012
spacebukkit control panel use those port to connect to server