Mkay, so don't think of me as a pedo or anything, but I'm 18, and this girl is 15, but she acts like she's atleast 18, and looks like she's atleast 17. Anyways, she's like the absolute girl of my dreams, and like I really do love her with all my heart. But I'm going away from basic, and I really don't think I can put her through that, so I told her, and she of course cried, for hours, and said she wouldn't ever give up. and I said sweety, I know. I'm sorry. I'm sorry I literally just did every last thing I said I'd never do, and it completely broke your heart, just as much as it did mine. Night went on, and then I asked her at what age did she want to get married by? She said 24. I said alright. You'll be 24, and I'll be 27, at that point, I do believe that I will be stable enough to support a family, and settle down. If you aren't married by then, and don't have anybody, do you think you'll find the strength inside you to give me another chance?
Aaaaand she said yes, and that she would literally wait until then.
Question of this, should I trust her for something that far away?
I literally trust her with my life, and I would give mine up for her in a millisecond, but that is literally 9 years away.
9 years is wayy too fucking long. she hasn't graduated, there's still college for her. for me, i'd say she's gonna have a cpl of BF by the time she's 24.
but if you love her that much and trust her, i'd say, go what your heart desires.
She will probably end up finding someone else in that 9 years. I recommend you see how it goes and if nothing works out move on and find another girl you would love and settle down with.
Honestly. If you know 100% she won't give up. Stick to it, she may be your wife.
Don't make her your everything. Cause if things don't work out, it'll be a rough time.
Your from the US so it's okay for some one 18-20 to date a 16 year old as long as there mom and dad say it's okay if not then you can go to jail. YOU CAN NOT FUCK A 16 YEAR OLD IF YOU ARE 18+. But just leave her a lone like you said your going away hell you will for get about her and she wont wait she is young and she will want to do what every she wants. Just wait until your done with the army or what every your going for to find love.
Keep a long distance relationship, talk to her everyday, that will let you get to know her better without ruining anything. If she still has her heart open for you and still loves you, then go for it!
Just try.
I'm the first boyfriend she's ever had, and her parents completely love me, like I know it's stupid, but I've never felt this way, or ever come this close to any other girl, ever. Like literally if it came down to it, I'd pick her to save over my mother, and i love my mother with ever last breath in my body.
That's pretty extreme.
Relationship gon' get fucked.
I know. I tried not to let it get this far, because I knew that if it came down to it, I'd be fucked if I had to move on.
And like, she knows how I feel about her, exactly. I'm completely honest with her, no matter what it's about.
Originally Posted by Taylor Swift
I know. I tried not to let it get this far, because I knew that if it came down to it, I'd be fucked if I had to move on.
And like, she knows how I feel about her, exactly. I'm completely honest with her, no matter what it's about.
I had one of those relationships back when I was 16, thought she was totally the one, she thought I was the one. Then shit got fucked.
Originally Posted by Taylor Swift
Mkay, so don't think of me as a pedo or anything, but I'm 18, and this girl is 15, but she acts like she's atleast 18, and looks like she's atleast 17. Anyways, she's like the absolute girl of my dreams, and like I really do love her with all my heart. But I'm going away from basic, and I really don't think I can put her through that, so I told her, and she of course cried, for hours, and said she wouldn't ever give up. and I said sweety, I know. I'm sorry. I'm sorry I literally just did every last thing I said I'd never do, and it completely broke your heart, just as much as it did mine. Night went on, and then I asked her at what age did she want to get married by? She said 24. I said alright. You'll be 24, and I'll be 27, at that point, I do believe that I will be stable enough to support a family, and settle down. If you aren't married by then, and don't have anybody, do you think you'll find the strength inside you to give me another chance?
Aaaaand she said yes, and that she would literally wait until then.
Question of this, should I trust her for something that far away?
I literally trust her with my life, and I would give mine up for her in a millisecond, but that is literally 9 years away.
Your username is Taylor Swift and you're posting about this huge relationship break up mishap. Somebody beat the fuck out of this kid irl...
But like, she's never done anything wrong. People have tried to get her to cheat, and she walked away, called me, and handed them the phone.
Originally Posted by Taylor Swift
I'm the first boyfriend she's ever had, and her parents completely love me, like I know it's stupid, but I've never felt this way, or ever come this close to any other girl, ever. Like literally if it came down to it, I'd pick her to save over my mother, and i love my mother with ever last breath in my body.
Now this actually pisses me off. I just want to let you know you are a fucking idiot. Good bye.
9 years is wayy too fucking long. she hasn't graduated, there's still college for her. for me, i'd say she's gonna have a cpl of BF by the time she's 24. 
Originally Posted by Taylor Swift
