rabcdasm

This is my first time using it so please dont yell at me. Just want to make sure I'm doing this correct.
Once I finish with rabcdasm bob-1.abc (bob is my file name)
I get this folder wit tons of other folders usually starting with "-_" then 2 letters or numbers
the last folders are amvplus, com, flashx, kabam, mx, override, static
then i have bob-1.main.asasm, 2 maploading files and 2 webloading files.
so I edit these files with notepad to change the files?

You're doing it right. Afterwards you would use rabcasm (notice no d) to assemble all those files back into an .abc file. One you have that simply replace the .abc found in the swf file with this .abc file you've just generated.