Fully set-up server?

I want to make a RotMG server for my friends and I, so we could play along together, just only us. Are there any completly done servers in the forums to download? Also it would be great if the characters would be saved server-side and when we die the characters does not get deleted.
I would really appriciate a link, because the only server tutorials/helps that I found are just plain servers without anything on it (AI, items, maps, etc.).

P.s: Sorry for my bad English, I'm not a native speaker.

If you want a complete server with everything, that's not gonna happen. You can remove the permadeath though.

I'm with this guy. I don't know how to set up a server on my own, and have listened to and/or read all tutorials I can find. I would definitely donate to anyone who would post an almost-complete server setup or explain how to...