If you used hack on shared account both can be vacked if not don't worry about that, steam vac status may not to be updated but will incoming soon if you are really banned. Recently was patch to resolve steam issue that was showing wrong "Vac ban" message when they can't reach your stats, maybe the issue is still there but not show up message.
Sometime is only connection issue, so after restarting steam run "single player" start campaign and go back to main menu and from there run multiplayer...