HelpHelp for new Private server please!

Hello everyone, I am seeking help creating a private server...What is the best source? How should i get started? If any of you could post a .swf file of a private server where I could be admin that would be great! If someone would be nice enough to do this I would work from there
If anyone would be so nice as to give me advice, Thank you. I need all the help i could get -_-

http://www.mpgh.net/forum/showthread.php?t=719291

Just follow this instruction, it's self explaining

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michi_181198